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When it comes to women having an orgasm, you can bet that only 25% get real climax and some could just fake it or felt it was just “okay”. If you’re a man and you hear your woman saying such thing or that she didn’t get the big O, what would you feel? What would you really feel? Men and their ego’s come hand in hand and hearing their woman say they didn’t climax is a big blow on their egos. So come to think of think of, what are the things that really make a woman orgasm?

Here’s one thing, it’s not all about the size. Although women want something a little bit extra, it is not all about the penis size. Let’s face it, men take pride on their sizes, no doubt about that, and some feels embarrassed when they’re not gifted. Let’s take into consideration the simple yet important things that can help you make a woman orgasm.

Are you patient enough to do a foreplay? Women are so much different from men. And while men gets easily turned on with little stimulation, women need more time to have their blood really running. This is where good foreplay should enter. Make sure to take time stimulating your woman, not because your ready to go, it doesn’t mean your girl is. If you’re not ready to be halted make sure both of you are ready on the same thing.

Sex position: Penetration and “pounding” is nothing if you can’t seem to find the perfect sex position. There are several positions that can help stimulate your partner, at least make the effort to learn some of it. Variety is inevitable. Do not limit your sex knowledge on what is conventional, instead ask your partner to work with you. If she feels comfortable on your suggestions, give it a try and you’ll be surprised with what it gives your woman.

Technique: So you got the best sex position. You’re ready to try and nothing can stop you, but do you know the right technique to do it? Here’s an idea, Perfect sex position and a confident male ego can’t get you anywhere if you don’t know how to properly execute it. Penetration is not just plain penetration, you have a goal once your inside. What goal? Either you go for the G spot or penetration accompanied clitoral stimulation.

Give at least one: There are three ways in which you can help your woman get an orgasm.

Clitoral stimulation: This refers to the man’s ability to stimulate his woman’s clitoris, either by his fingers or tongue. Women are more turned on when given an oral stimulation because of the wet and warm feel of the tongue.

Vaginal stimulation: This refers to complete penetration inside the woman’s vagina either by the fingers or the penis.

G spot stimulation: G spot stimulation refers to penetration aiming for the G spot inside the vagina. This type of stimulation is commonly achived doing the doggy style position.

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If you find your woman complaining about not getting an orgasm, it is high time for you to change your style and get some serious thought on what you’re doing wrong. While it is a fact that not all women peak during intercourse, this should be a hint to their male partner to do more and give them what they need.

A woman on the verge of orgasm should also know her body rhythm and not blame everything on the man. Men can only do so much and if a woman does not know how to stimulate herself to reach climax, chances are she won’t get anything as climaxing.

What are the things you need to consider before and during sex?

  • To do or Not to do foreplay: There are two sides wherein a woman’s body gets highly stimulated, either way a man should always keep in mind that his woman should get an orgasm and completely enjoy sex.
    • Foreplay: Foreplay gives both of you especially the woman an advance notice on what’s about to transpire. This will enable her to relax a bit and ready her mind and emotions ready. This physical stimulation will also help her raise her hormones to great height of excitement.
    • Absence of foreplay: A hot steamy sex often times lead to great orgasm even with the absence of foreplay. A man can literally tell whether a girl needs some foreplay or not. If you think foreplay is not needed, do not force it or it will only lead to getting in the NO mood.
  • Oral stimulation: Going down with your tongue in a woman’s clitoris often times lead to great female orgasm. Take your time sliding your tongue downwards. Make sure your tongue can give a sleek slide on her clitoris and play the tip of your tongue on her. You can do this by going round and round and by changing your speed.
  • Clitoral stimulation can also be done using your fingers. By gently stroking her clitoris, and do the same rhythm as your tongue, you will likely to give her a good orgasm.
  • If clitoral stimulation can’t still bring her to climax, you can also try the G spot stimulation. You can either do this by inserting your finger inside her vagina with your palm upside or through deep thrusting of penis inside. Make sure to sub the tipoff your finger or penis on the upside part of her vagina to stimulate the G Spot.
  • A man who can hold their urges to give way for a woman to climax more is a big turn on to women. While it is not necessary to hold it, it can also be an additional stimulation on the woman’s part. Do not force any action against her will and let her have your way with your body too. Let her feel she can also be in control.

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